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Blissful Ignorance

5th May 2008

Is being selfish about how you feel a bad thing?
Is being ignorant of things going on in the world a bad thing?

In my opinion, being blissfully ignorant and unaware of some so called “dangers” on this planet is quite beautiful and empowering.

Every single one of us has free will. We get to decide what to give our attention to. Just because someone else has decided that it’s a bad thing, it doesn’t mean you have to give it your attention as well.

Just because a certain disease, bad habit or traumatic event is going on, it doesn’t mean that you need to give it your attention. You get to choose whether you want to or not.

How you feel right now is the only thing you should be giving your attention. How you feel in this moment, and this moment and this moment… That’s what really matters.

Not so long ago, my Dad made a comment about all of the eggs I eat. I absolutely love boiled eggs in the mornings and I always find lot’s of fun things to cook up with eggs almost everyday too.

His comment was something about me probably having a high cholesterol level because of all the eggs I eat.

I could have listened to what he was saying.
I could have given it my attention and felt fearful about all the eggs I eat.
I could research and lookup cholesterol problems on the Internet.
I could have let his comments affect me.

But instead of doing any of that, I chose not to give it my attention and I remained blissfully ignorant.

Here’s my Paris Hilton moment… I don’t even know what cholesterol levels are!

And actually… I couldn’t care less about them. I’m enjoying my life and I’m enjoying my eggs :-)

If there comes a time when I need to know what cholesterol levels are, then that will be that. But right now, I love remaining blissfully ignorant of all the diseases, new outbreaks and health problems that are going around.

I don’t want them and I don’t give them a second of my attention.

Since discovering the Law of Attraction and understanding that what I give my attention to affects my feelings which affects my vibration which affects what I manifest, I no longer read the newspapers, nor do I watch the news on TV.

Occasionally I do like to watch some TV and if the news happens to come on when I’m lined up to watch a program then I’ve actually found myself muting the television and placing something in front of my eyes so that I won’t allow myself to absorb any of it.

Personally, I feel that is the level of selfishness you need to acquire. You need to be so selfish that you won’t allow anyone else to poison your mind with unwanted feelings.

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Visualizing For Manifestation Yields NO Results!

3rd May 2008

I’m sure you’ve seen some of the tire kickers out there crying about how the Law of Attraction doesn’t work. Maybe you’re one of them?

Well, I’m not here to convince you of anything. Only you can make and form your own beliefs. But from my own personal experience, I know the Law of Attraction works for me.

Something I learned from our good friends Abraham-Hicks is that if you spend time visualizing your desires in order for them to manifest, almost always they will never materialize.

Why?

The universe hears your vibration. Not your thoughts.

When you visualize the car, the home or more money and have the intention of only doing it because you want it to manifest it… it will almost never happen.

Think of it like this… when you visualize and get into the feeling place of your desire, but the only reason you’re doing it is because you want it to materialize, you’re sending out two different vibrations.

The one vibration is the positive good vibration that is feeling good about the car, home or more money.

The other vibration that is being sent is similar to “I don’t have what I want, so I’ll visualize to get it”.

Can you see how these two vibrations cancel each other out?

It’s like saying “I want some ice cream but there’s no where to buy it from”. So the manifestation never occurs.

Before I fully realized this myself, I had purchased an Anthony Robbins audio program called Rapid Manifestation. It’s a short meditation type audio where Anthony Robins talks you through the process of visualizing what you want and feeling as if it’s already here.

I practised that damn meditation over and over again. I was awesome at it. I would feel so blissful and was totally in alignment with the desire that I had at the time, which was to manifest a certain amount of money to pay back a friend.

But no manifestation happened.

I did that meditation for about 8 weeks, every single day. But no manifestation.

Why? Because I was visualizing and only doing it because I wanted to manifest the money needed to pay my friend back.

When I finally realized that manifestation comes because of your feelings… I started practicing feeling good for no other reason than to feel good. Sure… I could still visualize paying back my friend because that made me feel good, but what was different was I no longer had attachment to the outcome. I let go of it.

Within weeks of realizing this, the manifestation occurred and I abundantly manifested more than enough money to pay my friend back every penny.

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Make Friends With Achievers

30th April 2008

Not so long ago I made a post on here about a really bad weekend I was having (see Light at the End of the Tunnel). Thankfully, I have some good online and offline friends who were able to help me in a time of need.

As I wrote that post it got me thinking about how my life has really changed in the last couple of years.

One important lesson I’ve learnt is that in order for you to succeed in anything you want to succeed in, you need to surround yourself with people who are already successful and living what you want to live.

That’s certainly been true for me and has helped me massively in my business and spiritual life.

When I first started out my online business I was very quick to associate and spend time on forums. It took me a while but I eventually realized that the people I mainly am speaking to on the forums are people in the same situation as me… trying to make a successful online business.

It’s the same with the Law of Attraction and my spiritual life. I would join discussion groups and forums where people who wanted to be successful with the Law of Attraction were discussing it. I, of course, was chiming in also.

These forums and discussion groups are not a bad place and I’m certain that there ARE successful people contributing to them. But the majority of the people who use them are those who are seeking success and have not found it yet.

When I finally realized that, I stopped hanging out in forums and started to only associate with those who I considered successful.

I got myself a business coach who had been there and done that.

I would only read blog posts from other successful online business owners.

I spent less time on the forums and more time working on my own business.

Thanks to the Internet, it’s never been easier to connect with those who are successful using things like blogs and other mediums. My advice is to only to give your attention to a select few that really resonate with you, otherwise you’ll quickly become overloaded.

Now that I own a growing, successful online business, I can confidently assure you that spending time with those who’ve achieved what you want to achieve will be monumental in your own growth.

This applies to all areas of your life and not just business and spirituality.

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Start Working Towards Your Goals DVD - Special

25th April 2008

I’ve got another DVD thats being released today. This DVD is called “Stop Being Lazy And Start Working Towards Your Goals…”.

This DVD will show you how you can overcome laziness so that you start working towards your goals, dreams & desires.

Here’s whats covered in this DVD:

  • The root cause of laziness & how you can overcome it
  • What low & high energy cycles are and why they are important to your health
  • One unheard of method to snap you out of procrastination
  • How you can create empowering routines that will serve you and your goals immensely
  • The number one reason why people become stagnate in their professional career and how you can prevent it immediately

For today and the rest of the weekend, you can get this DVD on a special launch price of just $15. On Monday 10am GMT, the price will increase to $35 and this offer will not be made again.

To own this DVD and for more information, visit the link below.

http://www.goodtofeelgood.com/lazy

Special offer expires on Monday, 10am GMT.

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How To Stay Happy DVD - Special

18th April 2008

Today I’m launching a brand new DVD called “Remaining Positive When Bad Stuff Happens”.

This DVD will show you how you can remain positive when experiencing negative circumstances and events.

If you realize that staying positive is essential when using the Law of Attraction to manifest your reality, then you’ll want to own this video.

Here’s whats covered in this DVD:

  • How to change your perception of good and bad
  • How you can be OK with difficult situations
  • How you can immediately stop reacting to events
  • How to talk yourself out of any negative situation
  • A case study example of how to take yourself from a negative emotion and move into a positive one

For today and the rest of the weekend, you can get this DVD on a special launch price of just $15. On Monday 10am GMT, the price will increase to $35 and this offer will not be made again.

To own this DVD and read what other people thought of it, visit the link below.

http://www.goodtofeelgood.com/positive

Special offer expires on Monday, 10am GMT.

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Trusting Your Inner Guidance

17th April 2008

Throughout your day you will make hundreds of different decisions. Making the right decision has always been considered the most difficult to get right.

Instead of engaging your logical thinking mind to make the decisions, try using your inner guidance to guide you into making the correct decision.

Abraham-Hicks shared with us that we have something called an Emotional Guidance System. It is this system that you can feel when you walk into a room with “bad vibes”.

How do you know a room has “bad vibes”?

That’s your emotional guidance system in action!

The emotions that you feel are your emotional guidance system. When you feel bad, bad things are on their way. When you feel good, you’re moving towards something that will please you.

Your emotions are quite simply the best way to make accurate decisions.

Let’s say for a moment that you get offered a new job. Ask yourself, “how do I feel?”. If you feel good about it, then this job is in perfect alignment with you and you will be moving towards things that give you more pleasure and more great feelings.

On the flip side of the coin, if you don’t feel good about the new job offering, or if you don’t feel much of anything at all about it, then that job is not in alignment with what you’ve been saying you want. It will not yield you joyful and blissful situations.

Recently, I hired a virtual staff member to help me run part of my business. I had narrowed my search down to two different people. One of the candidates had far more experience than the other. It would have been far too easy for me to go with my logical thinking brain and to simply have hired the more qualified person.

Instead of using my logical brain, I followed my emotions. The candidate with the least experience actually felt much better to me. In fact, we hit it off great!

The person with most experience didn’t give me any good feelings at all. I would have described the feelings felt around this person as “neutral”. As I discussed in a recent blog post, Neutral Emotions Are Negative Emotions, so neutral can be considered the same as bad.

So, I followed my emotional guidance system and hired the less skilled employee.

And the results?

We’ve been getting on great! This new person has been putting in way more hours than I expected and is completely over-delivering. Our relationship is steadily growing and I’m feeling very optimistic about what’s ahead. All in all, I made what I consider to be a very good decision.

I’ll never know for sure what would have happened if I had of hired the other candidate. Maybe his performance would have been just as good, maybe not? Focusing on the past is not productive, so I choose not to give it my attention.

Another example of when I used my emotional guidance system recently was when I was looking over an Internet marketing forum I visit now and then… Someone has posted a new thread saying that they will take on 10 people and coach them to make $100,000 per year business. The cost? Nothing, nada, zilch.

Of course, it sounded too good to be true, but never the less, it aroused my curiosity and I read the post. Immediately I could feel that it wasn’t something that would bring me any joy what-so-ever. In fact, it made me feel pretty bad!

My logical mind on the other hand was going in over-drive…

Everyone would like a $100,000 business, why not just signup and see?
This guy wants nothing to get started! That’s nothing for $100k!
Let’s go for it!
Etc.

Instead of listening to those thoughts, I passed on the opportunity very quickly and went on to read something that was more in alignment with what I was vibrating.

The message I’m trying to convey is stop listening to that logical mind no matter what is presented in front of you. No matter how good it sounds to that logical mind. Resist the temptation and follow your feelings. Always follow your feelings.

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Neutral Emotions Are Negative Emotions

15th April 2008

When you feel good, good things are being attracted to you.

When you feel bad, bad things are being attracted to you.

So, what happens when you don’t feel much of anything?

Most would think that if you don’t feel much of anything, then you’re going to attract “not much of anything”. In my experience this isn’t how it works.

If I feel completely neutral or bad, then I get things that displease me.

The only time when I get stuff that is wanted in my life is when I feel good. No exceptions.

The next time you ask yourself “how do I feel now?” and you don’t get a positive response, then you should know that you have work to do to get yourself back into alignment with what you do want.

If you look at the Emotional Guidance Scale, you’ll see that the top 7 are all considered to be “good” emotions…

1. Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love
2. Passion
3. Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
4. Positive Expectation/Belief
5. Optimism
6. Hopefulness
7. Contentment

If you’re not feeling good, and if you think you’re feeling neutral, here are the emotions that you’re vibrating closer to…

8. Boredom
9. Pessimism
10. Frustration/Irritation/Impatience

So, the next time you think you’re feeling “neutral” or “not much of anything”, poke around some more until you really do work out how you feel.

Remember, if you don’t feel good right now, then you’re not in alignment with things that you say you want. It’s as simple as that.

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How Much Do You Want It?

9th April 2008

I was recently reminded by a good friend of mine about the actions one can take to help solidify beliefs.

Think about this for a moment… let’s say you want to manifest a holiday abroad…

If you’re going on holiday, what are the action steps required in order to make this a reality? Here’s a fictitious list:

  • Research best flights and prices
  • Book time off work
  • Buy sun block
  • Get a book on the location
  • Organize a baby sitter
  • Exchange some spending money

If you want to manifest your holiday then you absolutely must get into alignment with your desire. There’s two ways to do this, either feel good about anything at all, or get yourself to a place where you believe your desire will happen.

By NOT doing the tasks on the list above, you’re actually telling yourself that you do not believe you’ll experience the holiday. Whether you can afford the holiday or not, that’s not the issue.

Why else wouldn’t you do the tasks on the list above unless you didn’t completely believe that you were going on that vacation?

You may recall from the DVD “The Secret” that one of the teachers recommends you should visit a car lot if your desire is for a new car. Get behind the wheel of that dream car so that you can experience the feelings of having it.

What better way is there to get into alignment with your desires than to actually do the action steps required that lead up the manifestation!?

By doing those steps you’ll very quickly eliminate any seeds of doubt you may be carrying about experiencing it.

Go on and make your list of action steps whilst the universe yields you the “how” it will happen.

A friend of mine, Lee Ann from notesfromlalaland.com is doing just that. She is already taking the action steps required in order for her to begin living her dream life in Kona, Hawaii. She believes shes already there and her website reflects this.

I encourage you to have a think about this today and work out what you can do today to start believing your desires are already here.

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Should You Remain Silent?

28th March 2008

Should you tell your partner, your friends and your co-workers about your spiritual beliefs?

When I first learned of the Law of Attraction, I kept insanely quiet about it and did not let on to any of my friends or family about it. I studied in silence as my inner-being was awaking to something that felt so right to me.

My immediate family do know about my spiritual beliefs and so do my closest friends, yet I don’t believe its always right to go out and tell anyone about your beliefs.

As humans we have a desire within us to share something that we believe to be “right” and “true”. What we are really seeking is validation. We want someone to agree with us and tell us we’re doing a great job and you’re on the right path. Of course, someone else’s opinion should mean nothing to you – what you think is the only opinion that counts.

Many people just aren’t ready to hear about spiritualism. There will come a time when it is a necessity, but right now the majority of people are still stuck in their habitual thinking patterns and overruled by ego.

My personal family are quite the same and are firmly rooted with their ego’s. The fact was and is, that they are just not ready for what us “Law of Attraction practitioners” know. (If you practice the LOA then I call you a practitioner.)

That’s not a bad thing, nor is it a good thing. It “just is”. I don’t try and change anyones beliefs unless they seek the change themselves.

Coming back to the point of this blog post… should you stay silent or should you let on about the spiritual side of you? I say follow your gut instinct in every instance. If you feel compelled to share and it feels right for you to do so, then do so! Even if the initial response you get is not what you were expecting, you’ve probably just planted a seed that will continue to grow for that person.

On the other hand, if it doesn’t feel right for you to say anything about it, then that is the right thing for you to do. I was like this with my family for a long period of time.

Eventually, I stepped up the courage and followed my gut instinct to share the film “The Secret” with my brother. He responded to the film just like I did when I first watched it and he felt a new awakening within. Although he hasn’t taken any action to further his development, the seeds have been planted. I’m certain that when things become too miserable for him to handle, he’ll turn to that side of him that was awoken for just a few minutes that day.

Pain and misery are responsible for so much conscious awakening that it can’t possibly be considered “bad”. Investigate all of the “gurus” and their pasts… you’ll very quickly realize that it is the pain and misery that pushed them to where they are today.

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How To Think And Act In A Certain Way To Get The Law Of Attraction To ‘Work’ For You

24th March 2008

This is a guest article from author, Mohamad Latiff from http://www.UltimateSecretsofSuccess.com/success

Your thoughts play an integral part in motivating and steering you towards a certain course of action or actions that can eventually lead you to manifest whatever it is you desire.

Therefore, it is essential to think in a certain way to get the Law of Attraction to ‘work’ for you.

When you think of something that you wish to manifest, do not expect it to materialise before you. Rather hold a mental image of it with most positive certainty that it is being made or on its way to you.

After you have formed that mental image in your thought, have unwavering faith that it is coming. Don’t think, speak of it in any other way except that you are very certain and confident it will arrive.

You must also claim it as though it is already yours and the key element is to ask for anything that you want in abundance.

Once you are clear about how to think in a certain way, constantly ask yourself the following questions to gear your mind towards this notion of thought:

1. When I think of something that I wish to manifest, how can I hold a mental image of it with most positive certainty and have unwavering faith that it is being made or on its way to me?

2. Why must I hold a mental image of it with most positive certainty and have unwavering faith that it is being made or on its way to you?

3. How can I speak of it in any a way that I am very certain and confident it will arrive and that I claim it as my own?

Now that you’ve understood the importance of thinking in a certain way, you are ready for the next integral part in the manifestation process.

To fully get the Law of Attraction to ‘work’ for you, you must follow your thoughts with personal actions.

You have not reached a stage whereby you can just think of whatever you want and just magically conjure it in front of you eyes.

And this is the very essence as to why you must supplement any of your thoughts with actions.

But how then do you take actions in a certain way?

You must take the necessary, result producing actions and go on to actually perform them.

You must act in certain way such that when you attract things or your desires, you will put them in the proper place through these actions. Your thought brings you what you want but your actions will enable you to receive what you want.

Whatever you action is to be, you must act in the NOW, not in the past and not in the future. You have to put your whole mind in present action.

Do not care about how terribly or badly you did yesterday’s work, or how to perform tomorrow’s task, rather concern yourself with how you can get today’s work/tasks done.

And most importantly, you must act upon the things and persons in your environment for your actions to be most effective.

Here are some questions you can ask yourself to act most effectively:

1. What are the best necessary, result producing actions I can take to get what I want?

2. Why are these the best necessary, result producing actions for me to take and get what I want?

3. What actions can I take to put the things or wealth that I want in the proper place after I have attracted them?

4. Why must I take these actions to put the things or wealth that I want in the proper place after I have attracted them?

5. How can I act in the NOW, not in the past or the future?

6. Why is it necessary for me to act in the NOW, not in the past or the future?

7. How can I avoid thinking about how terribly or badly I did yesterday’s work or how to perform tomorrow’s task?

8. How can I concern myself with how I can get today’s work/tasks done?

9. Why should I concern myself with how I can get today’s work/tasks done?

10. What steps can I take to act upon the things and persons in my environment?

And there you have it. My simple explanation on how you can think and act in a certain way to get the Law of Attraction to ‘work’ for you. The onus now lies on you to put into effect what you’ve just learnt and truly manifest whatever it is that you desire.

Have fun manifesting!

About The Author:

Mohamad Latiff is giving away his $997 Accelerated Wealth Attraction technology that is guaranteed to at least triple your wealth in 40 days or less using the Law of Attraction - FREE. Only at http://www.UltimateSecretsofSuccess.com

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