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The “Allow And Let Go” Process

26th January 2009

One of our readers posted a great question in response to my Law of Attraction Report. After reading her question and re-reading it again, I realized that this is such an important point and so I’m making this post a response to her question so that everyone gets the benefit.

Here’s what Claire originally wrote…

I have read your report and I must say, I have practiced some of the things you’ve said and it has worked, but to get the ‘bigger’ things there are still some things I am uncertain about, for example, Im a very anxious person and even though I do practice feeling good and having good thoughts, I would like to know, once you’ve established to the universe what it is you want, what happens next? Do you continue with everyday things and not think about it? Or do you think about it and feel good? There are alot of things on my plate at the moment. I had a very bad year and I want to live the life I always dreamed would be impossible. Relationship, Travel, Debt and that dream Career. I have manifested something before but Im not sure how I did it. When I at least expected, it happened!! So does one have ask, allow and then forget and carry on? Im a bit confused with the ‘allow and let go ‘ process.

So let’s dig in!

What to do after confirming your desire. First of all, you should take notice of your feelings that you receive when you think about your desire. If the desire is for more money, then you may find that when you think about more money, your thoughts immediately switch to not having money and so you feel bad.

If this is the case, then thinking about your desire over and over again is not the right thing for you to do! Maintaining positive, feel good vibrations is what your work is.

On the other hand, if thinking about your desire makes you feel excited and elated, then it is a wonderful thing to think about! Those good feeling vibrations are bringing you closer and closer to your desire. It is worth noting though… you do not HAVE to think about your desire for it to manifest. Thinking about your desire is only helpful if thinking about it makes you feel great!

I recommend that you take all of this a little easier and don’t force yourself to think about your desire every chance you get. By doing that, you may be sending a vibration of “I really want my desire, so I’m going to think about it as much as possible!”. This vibration could hinder your manifestation. Instead, relax about it. Know that what you want is on its way and take the good feelings you get from thinking about your desire whenever you naturally happen to think about it.

If you meditate every day, you may like to use those meditation sessions as the time and space when you think and feel your desire. It’s not necessary to think about your desire every day, but if it feels good to you and you enjoy doing it - then do it!

Great things happen when you least expect it. Quite often, manifestations will occur when you’ve not been thinking about the desire for some time. This is because you are releasing the resistance you had that was keeping you away from having it. When you stop practicing thoughts that hold you away from your desire, the desire can then manifest.

The ONLY thing that keeps you from having what you want is thoughts and vibrations that are opposite to what you want. It is that continued attention.

Your work is to release and let go. Lighten up. Don’t take this so seriously. Think about your desire if it feels good to do so. Change your thinking so that you don’t continue to give power and attention to what you don’t want. Live a life worth living.