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Attracting Through Contrast

Whenever you experience an unwanted circumstance, you are sending powerful desires out to the universe. Whether you speak them out loud with your words has no affect because it is your vibration that does the asking, not your thoughts or words.

As you observe anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, in those moments you are shooting powerful requests to the universe asking for the later.

As you try to start your car and the battery fails… a desire is shooting out from you asking for a working car.

As you overspend in a month and receive a credit card statement that is very much so unwanted… a desire is shooting out from you asking for more dollars to enter your life.

Instead of seeing these unwanted circumstances as terrible and horrible to live with, you could start to see them in a different light. This contrast that you live provides you with excellent feedback as to what it is that you do not want to live. And also in those moments of experiencing something unwanted, you are sending powerful messages out to the universe.

You’re continuously asking for something that you DO want to live.

Going back a couple of years… I was going through a bad spell and got myself into a position where I had less money than the bills that I had to pay. I attracted my way out of that situation comfortably by shifting what it was that I was giving my attention to.

I find using comforting statements to take my attention away from what it is that I don’t want, works really well for me.

When I reflect on all of the moments that I considered to be really bad at the time, from where I stand today I can clearly see that all of those moments have helped me to decide and live this life experience that I now have.

The moments of being in more debt than I could afford, gave me the clarity to know that I never wanted to be in that position again. Living that contrast gave me much greater passion to live a better life.

If you observe many entrepreneurs of our time, you will also see this pattern within them too. Most came from very poor upbringings and lived very mediocre lifestyles. That contrast gave them the eyes to see what they did want from life and so they took it.

Everyone lives contrast - it’s what you do with it that really counts.

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Switching Your Focused Attention

Every time you think or experience something that is unwanted - a new preference is born within you.

That preference is instantaneously heard by the universe, in fact the universe hears your vibration and not your words, so you don’t even need to speak your desire out loud for it to be heard. Once received, the Law of Attraction immediately begins yielding it to you.

The only thing stopping that new desire from materializing itself into your experience, is your alignment with it.

You cannot be in alignment with your desire in the ‘desire forming stage’, because those are the moments when you are focusing on not having it. You get into alignment with the desire by changing what you give your attention. I call this the ‘desire receiving stage’.

So if you’ve been focusing on the lack of whatever it is that you want, you need to switch that attention before the desire can materialize. It really is that simple… the more attention you give to not having what you want, the more not having what you want you will experience.

Some people recommend that you give your attention to the having of your desire. That is a great way of allowing it into your experience, yet some of us find that quite difficult since we’re so conditioned to focusing on the lack of what we want.

The other way, is to give your attention to anything else that makes you feel good. Those good feeling vibrations that you send out when feeling good will attract back to you everything that you’ve been wanting. You just need to stay in the feel good space for a little bit of time.

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Telling It Like It Is

Do you tell it like it is?
Or do you tell it how you want it to be?

I hope you enjoy this audio as much as I did!

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Which Side Are You On?

As you know, whether you want to manifest a cup of coffee or one thousand dollars, the manifestation process will remain constant and unchanging.

Whatever it is that you give the majority of your attention to, will become reality.

So my question to you today is which side of the vibration scale are you on?

Let’s use money as an example. The subject of money is really two subjects. The having and experiencing of money, and the absence and lack of it.

If you give the majority of your attention to the having of money, you will experience more money.

If you give the majority of your attention to the lack of money, you will experience the lack of money.

Which side are you vibrating on? The lack, or the having?

You can tip the balance of your vibrational scale pretty easily too… just give your attention to anything other than the lack of money. It’s your consistent attention to something that you don’t want that keeps it in your experience. If you can lessen your grip just a little bit, and begin to pay attention to the things that bring you more pleasure and more joy, you’ll very quickly see more of what you want and less of what you don’t want.

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Reflecting On Your Financial Vibration

Lately I’ve been hearing a lot about money issues from readers of my blog and also from my customers. It’s never pleasant to hear these things from others, as more often than not, I can feel the desperation within their words.

Because I do not want to create money issues in my own life, I do not give these emails a lot of my attention. Instead, I prefer to take a lesson from seeing their own mistakes, and ensuring that I do not make them myself. And of course, I provide what I think is helpful advice.

Every time I receive an email or a phone call from someone in dire straights, it makes me wonder if they actually know what vibration they are putting out to the universe, or whether they do not fully understand universal laws. To me it appears so clear and obvious where they are going wrong…

“Please help! I need to manifest more money NOW. … [INSERT LONG LIST OF PROBLEMS HERE] … It’s not working for me and I don’t know where I’m going wrong!!”

The above is similar to the desperation I’ve been seeing from some people of late.

By answering one simple question, we can clearly see why they are not achieving the money or desires that they’ve been asking for…

Is this person giving their attention to having more money? Or is there attention on the lack of it?

If you give your attention to the lack of it, guess what’s on the way? Less money… more struggle… more unwanted circumstances.

My advice is to stop giving your attention away to the lack of what you want!

A good place to start raising your vibration is to rationalize the situation. Start looking at it from a clearer point of view.

Let’s say that you’re about to lose your home and go bankrupt. Try these thoughts out for size and see if they fit…

I’ve always paid my utility bills on time.
I’m not the first person to ever go bankrupt.
This gives me the opportunity to find a different home.
Many millionaires have declared bankruptcy before.
This situation gives me greater clarity to know what I do want.
My family will be a lot stronger after this.
At least I won’t have any money worries once this is dealt with.
No one goes to jail for missing a payment.

If you’re going through a tricky patch with finance, then look for anything to make you feel better about the subject. And if you still struggle with that, then take your complete and utter attention away from it and give every moment of your attention to something that makes you feel happy.

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Creating A Beautiful Existence

As most of you know, I’ve left England and have moved to Costa Rica for at least the next 3 months. I’ve got some photos of my new home for you posted below. I’m really enjoying my time out here, and have just jumped off my hammock to write this blog post for you.

Before we get to the pics, I want to point out to you how ordinary I consider myself to be. All through my life I’ve considered myself to be no great achiever and always achieving the middle result in anything I give my attention to. Sure, there are some things that I excel at, for example I really enjoying working with computers and so I have taught myself the ins and outs with them.

The reason I mention this is because I remember several years ago (when I was first getting into the Law of Attraction), many of the teachers I was paying attention to would also state that they have no magical powers and are nothing special. They just understood universal laws.

At the time, I didn’t believe them. I felt that they had some gift that enabled them to live the life of their dreams.

A few years on and now I am deliberately designing the life I want to live. I tell you this not to brag, but to point out that you are special and you have the same gift that every single Law of Attraction teacher has too. You really can be, do and have anything you want!

After living the contrast of a day job, I decided I wanted to work for myself, doing the hours and work that I enjoy doing. I am now living that experience and have my own Internet business.

After realizing that all of my friends had no similar interests to me any more, I desired some new friends who have the same interests as me. I now have several very good friends who all share the same interests and whom are very supportive. I am very grateful for each and every one of them.

After experiencing the contrast of my old environment back in England, I decided that I wanted to live in a warmer climate with lots of peace and quiet. I am now living that experience out here in beautiful and peaceful Costa Rica.

And so, how did I do it?

I gave only what I wanted my attention. I felt good feelings about those things that I wanted to experience and ensured I felt good as much of the day as possible.

As simple as it may sound, that is all there is to it. Raise your vibration and maintain it. Life will hand over anything you ask of it.