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Trusting Your Inner Guidance

17th April 2008

Throughout your day you will make hundreds of different decisions. Making the right decision has always been considered the most difficult to get right.

Instead of engaging your logical thinking mind to make the decisions, try using your inner guidance to guide you into making the correct decision.

Abraham-Hicks shared with us that we have something called an Emotional Guidance System. It is this system that you can feel when you walk into a room with “bad vibes”.

How do you know a room has “bad vibes”?

That’s your emotional guidance system in action!

The emotions that you feel are your emotional guidance system. When you feel bad, bad things are on their way. When you feel good, you’re moving towards something that will please you.

Your emotions are quite simply the best way to make accurate decisions.

Let’s say for a moment that you get offered a new job. Ask yourself, “how do I feel?”. If you feel good about it, then this job is in perfect alignment with you and you will be moving towards things that give you more pleasure and more great feelings.

On the flip side of the coin, if you don’t feel good about the new job offering, or if you don’t feel much of anything at all about it, then that job is not in alignment with what you’ve been saying you want. It will not yield you joyful and blissful situations.

Recently, I hired a virtual staff member to help me run part of my business. I had narrowed my search down to two different people. One of the candidates had far more experience than the other. It would have been far too easy for me to go with my logical thinking brain and to simply have hired the more qualified person.

Instead of using my logical brain, I followed my emotions. The candidate with the least experience actually felt much better to me. In fact, we hit it off great!

The person with most experience didn’t give me any good feelings at all. I would have described the feelings felt around this person as “neutral”. As I discussed in a recent blog post, Neutral Emotions Are Negative Emotions, so neutral can be considered the same as bad.

So, I followed my emotional guidance system and hired the less skilled employee.

And the results?

We’ve been getting on great! This new person has been putting in way more hours than I expected and is completely over-delivering. Our relationship is steadily growing and I’m feeling very optimistic about what’s ahead. All in all, I made what I consider to be a very good decision.

I’ll never know for sure what would have happened if I had of hired the other candidate. Maybe his performance would have been just as good, maybe not? Focusing on the past is not productive, so I choose not to give it my attention.

Another example of when I used my emotional guidance system recently was when I was looking over an Internet marketing forum I visit now and then… Someone has posted a new thread saying that they will take on 10 people and coach them to make $100,000 per year business. The cost? Nothing, nada, zilch.

Of course, it sounded too good to be true, but never the less, it aroused my curiosity and I read the post. Immediately I could feel that it wasn’t something that would bring me any joy what-so-ever. In fact, it made me feel pretty bad!

My logical mind on the other hand was going in over-drive…

Everyone would like a $100,000 business, why not just signup and see?
This guy wants nothing to get started! That’s nothing for $100k!
Let’s go for it!
Etc.

Instead of listening to those thoughts, I passed on the opportunity very quickly and went on to read something that was more in alignment with what I was vibrating.

The message I’m trying to convey is stop listening to that logical mind no matter what is presented in front of you. No matter how good it sounds to that logical mind. Resist the temptation and follow your feelings. Always follow your feelings.

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Neutral Emotions Are Negative Emotions

15th April 2008

When you feel good, good things are being attracted to you.

When you feel bad, bad things are being attracted to you.

So, what happens when you don’t feel much of anything?

Most would think that if you don’t feel much of anything, then you’re going to attract “not much of anything”. In my experience this isn’t how it works.

If I feel completely neutral or bad, then I get things that displease me.

The only time when I get stuff that is wanted in my life is when I feel good. No exceptions.

The next time you ask yourself “how do I feel now?” and you don’t get a positive response, then you should know that you have work to do to get yourself back into alignment with what you do want.

If you look at the Emotional Guidance Scale, you’ll see that the top 7 are all considered to be “good” emotions…

1. Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love
2. Passion
3. Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
4. Positive Expectation/Belief
5. Optimism
6. Hopefulness
7. Contentment

If you’re not feeling good, and if you think you’re feeling neutral, here are the emotions that you’re vibrating closer to…

8. Boredom
9. Pessimism
10. Frustration/Irritation/Impatience

So, the next time you think you’re feeling “neutral” or “not much of anything”, poke around some more until you really do work out how you feel.

Remember, if you don’t feel good right now, then you’re not in alignment with things that you say you want. It’s as simple as that.

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Wealth Creation with the Law of Attraction

13th April 2008

If you’re wondering how you can use the Law of Attraction to create wealth in your life or how can you attract more abundance, then it is my intention that by the time you’ve finished reading this article you will have a better understanding of the process you must follow.

First, let us define the word “wealth”. For most wealth will mean more money. However, being wealthy does not necessarily equate to having lots of money. To a caveman, being wealthy could mean having an abundance of food and the best tools available. To a tribesman, being wealthy may mean having the most wives or having the most children. To someone who may have lived a life of illness, being wealthy could mean an abundance of well-being and good health.

What does being wealthy really mean to you?
Do you have a clear picture in your mind of wealth?

Once you’ve defined what wealth means to you in great detail you can now work towards attracting it into your life.

The first step to attracting abundance into your life is by giving gratitude for what you already have. This creates a state of mind in which more things will flow for which you can be grateful. The “Attitude of Gratitude” will take you a long way towards manifesting wealth.

Next, don’t decide on how it will happen, instead just let it happen. Be open to all suggestions as to how this wealth can enter your life. If you were to ask for more money but you say to yourself that it must come in the form of a pay rise, you are limiting the power of the universe to only one channel. Instead if you want more money, feel as if you’ve already got the money and don’t pay any attention to how it comes into your life.

One suggestion that can help you to be more open to receiving money is to make a list of 20 different methods that the money could find its way into your life. Most people will only have access to about 5 different ways of how the money can come into your experience, but when you make a list of 20 different ways you are broadening your horizons and allowing many more possibilities.

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How to Lose Weight with the Law of Attraction

11th April 2008

“Can I use The Law of Attraction to lose weight?” Absolutely!

Have you ever wondered why some people can just eat and eat and eat and NEVER get fat? Your friends or family may have told you … “it’s because of their metabolism and it’s different to yours”.

Not exactly an encouraging statement to say the least. Well what we’ve just proven is that food has no direct impact on the size of your waist! I’ve known people who have literally stuffed their faces at parties, eaten monstrous sized meals and have sat around watching TV all day long whilst they miraculously burn off the fat.

But why can’t I be like that? What’s so different?

What you believe to be true – is.
What you accept as truth – is.

If you’ve been bombarded with statements such as:

“If you eat that, you’ll get fat”
“Obesity is genetic and can’t be controlled”
“It’s hard to lose weight”

Depending on how you react when you heard these statements is dependent upon how your body will react. Every one of your cells responds to your thoughts and emotions. If you’re feeling fearful about putting on more weight then your cells will respond accordingly. If you believe that because you are a couch potato or a computer geek, your lack of exercise will cause you to become fat! Don’t be surprised when it happens. Do you believe that eating the large fries instead of small is going to probably make you fat? You’re probably already gaining weight. Our beliefs, thoughts and expectations firmly dictate our reality. So if you want to change your reality, first you need to change your thoughts.

Your thoughts can easily manipulate your reality, what could you possibly have more control over than your own physical body!

Your thoughts around your own bodily image and thoughts associated with food is what have determined your bodily shape. Every time that you look in the mirror and see something unwanted you send a powerful message to the Law of Attraction asking for more of it. Your cells react to this way of thinking and within a few months you’ve managed to gain an extra inch around your waist!

By feeding negative energy into your bodily image, you will undoubtedly attract more things to feel disgust and displeasure around your body.

When you see yourself in the mirror, stop judging yourself and begin loving yourself and your body. Your body carries you around, and you should be grateful that you have one at all! Do your very best to accept your body as it is right now, and decide that you would like to change it in order to give yourself a happier, healthier existence. Make a list of what you do want to experience regarding your body and only give your attention to the things you write on your list.

Accept your body in the mirror, and stop snarling and judging yourself. When you love your body, then naturally your body will feel better and will become healthier. As this happens your body will naturally shift to fit the image that you are holding in your mind: a healthier, thinner body. You will never lose weight while you judge yourself fat.

See yourself thin and beautiful. In no time at all, your cells will respond to your new thoughts around your body. Stick with it and enjoy watching the fat drip away!

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How Much Do You Want It?

9th April 2008

I was recently reminded by a good friend of mine about the actions one can take to help solidify beliefs.

Think about this for a moment… let’s say you want to manifest a holiday abroad…

If you’re going on holiday, what are the action steps required in order to make this a reality? Here’s a fictitious list:

  • Research best flights and prices
  • Book time off work
  • Buy sun block
  • Get a book on the location
  • Organize a baby sitter
  • Exchange some spending money

If you want to manifest your holiday then you absolutely must get into alignment with your desire. There’s two ways to do this, either feel good about anything at all, or get yourself to a place where you believe your desire will happen.

By NOT doing the tasks on the list above, you’re actually telling yourself that you do not believe you’ll experience the holiday. Whether you can afford the holiday or not, that’s not the issue.

Why else wouldn’t you do the tasks on the list above unless you didn’t completely believe that you were going on that vacation?

You may recall from the DVD “The Secret” that one of the teachers recommends you should visit a car lot if your desire is for a new car. Get behind the wheel of that dream car so that you can experience the feelings of having it.

What better way is there to get into alignment with your desires than to actually do the action steps required that lead up the manifestation!?

By doing those steps you’ll very quickly eliminate any seeds of doubt you may be carrying about experiencing it.

Go on and make your list of action steps whilst the universe yields you the “how” it will happen.

A friend of mine, Lee Ann from notesfromlalaland.com is doing just that. She is already taking the action steps required in order for her to begin living her dream life in Kona, Hawaii. She believes shes already there and her website reflects this.

I encourage you to have a think about this today and work out what you can do today to start believing your desires are already here.

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24 Hour Special

8th April 2008

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How to Become a Money Magnet

7th April 2008

Becoming a money magnet is probably the hardest thing for a lot of people to accomplish. Sometimes deliberate creators have the ability to attract wonderful relationships, new houses, better friends, new jobs and improve their overall health but they struggle and strive with creating more money!

Let me tell you right now that it is no harder for the universe to yield to you a car parking space than it is to yield a million dollars. If you have deliberately attracted anything before than I assure you that with the right practises you can not only become a money magnet but you can attract huge lump sums of cash.

Commonly once we’ve heard about the Law of Attraction we set our intentions on working towards something we want. When you want something - you are putting out the vibration of not having it. Because wanting is in itself is lack of having something. So if you want more money you must see yourself as already in possession of already having the money.

Simple. Right?

As simple as this process sounds, that really is all of what you have to do! You must get yourself into a place of feeling as if you’re already in possession of the desired amount of money. As soon as you’ve lined up, the universe will yield to you exactly what you’re putting out.

Do you want to know what you’re currently putting out to the universe right now?

Open up your wallet. Check your bank balance. Look at the car you’re driving.

If it’s not what you want to see, then you have more work to do. The universe will yield to you endless opportunities to bring you the money, the “how” is not your work, what is your work is to get into alignment with your desire.

Have you ever heard of stories when multi-millionaires go bankrupt and lose their entire estate? Have you ever noticed how in most cases these individuals will bounce back and end up earning the same money if not more? Why is this? For long periods of time they have practiced having that money, they’ve got the wealth vibrations and are constantly putting them out. Even after they’ve lost their money, because they’ve practiced a certain way of thinking for so long, the money and opportunities find them once again.

If you practice the feelings of having the money you desire for long enough then the universe will continue to open doors leading to the money you desire. Your work is to feel as if you’ve already come in possession of the wealth!

Here are a couple of suggestions to help you stay in the right money consciousness.

Value the money you have
Every time you receive a paycheck, give thanks for the money that you have just received. Instead of brushing it off and thinking it as a measly amount of money, just be grateful that it is there at all.

The penny test
When you see a penny or nickel on the floor, stop to pick it up! Be thankful for even the smallest amounts of money that come into your experience. Also you can see this as a sign that money is starting to find its way into your experience. Remember, if you just ignore the penny then what vibration are you putting out to the universe? One of… “I don’t want the money”.

As your subconscious begins to get the idea that money is important to, valuable to, and much appreciated by you, more will begin to show up. Stay aware of money coming in, and keep your mind in a receiving mode. Be sure to stop and appreciate each bit of money that comes your way.

A very abundant future awaits you!

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On Your Way To Deliberate Creation

5th April 2008

You are a perfect being and one that is capable of huge potential. You really can, be, do and have anything you desire. As a child you were more connected to source energy than perhaps you are now. That’s because when you’re younger you hadn’t yet adopted patterns of disallowing the well being that is natural to you.

Regaining your power as a creator isn’t the easiest task, but it certainly isn’t impossible. Depending on how well you are at adopting a new pattern will determine whether how soon you will succeed.

Remember, whatever you place your attention on, you will attract more of it if you are mixing those thoughts with emotion. It is the emotion that is doing all of the attraction, not your thoughts, words or actions.

The Law of Attraction is working at every moment and it never sleeps. You are the creator of your own reality. If you see something unwanted in your life, realize that it is there only because you attracted it. Take responsibility for your own actions! Until you do, you will not have the power to change anything. The more focus you place on blaming another for your situations then the more of it you will attract. The more blameful situations will appear into your life and the more people to blame will be present. The Law of Attraction doesn’t discriminate, it doesn’t care what you want or don’t want. It just matches things together.

By giving more focus to the things that you already have, and are grateful for, the more of those things you attract into your life. It’s much easier to focus upon something that you already have than it is to focus on something that you do not have.

Just a tiny shift in your awareness, maintained each day, will soon bring about a hurricane of delightful things to you. This subtle shift in mindset is often the most difficult thing to do. We are so conditioned into thinking in a specific way that changing your patterns of thought appears very difficult and uncomfortable.

After taking this small shift, you can take note of even the smallest of things that are beginning to show up in your life that wouldn’t have done so before. By focussing on these new things you’re experiencing you can soon build great momentum and keep on going until the uncomfortable changing of thought patterns becomes a habitual routine that you carry on without worry.

This is when you truly have become a deliberate creator.

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Attracting Money with the Law of Attraction

3rd April 2008

Attracting money is quite possibly the most common desire amongst deliberate creators. And yet, for the majority of people it is the most difficult thing to do!

Bob Proctor says that money is the easiest thing to make! I know a lot of people who would disagree with that statement, but is he right?

The universe really doesn’t care what you’re manifesting or how much of something you want, it simply responds to your thoughts. So, I would agree partially with Bob that money can be just as easy to manifest as a cup of coffee, but I also believe that money is the subject that a lot of people have deeply rooted beliefs about.

One of the first things you must start doing if you are serious about manifesting more money is to let go of needing money so badly. In other words, stop trying to make something happen! Worrying about the bills will not help you, letting go will.

If you really are desperate for more money, then I encourage you to start thinking in a more positive outlook. For example, you could say to yourself:

It doesn’t matter if my bills get paid or not, it’s not a life threatening situation
No one ever goes to jail for not having enough money
I’ve never missed a monthly payment before and so I’m not going to this month either

Start saying things that make you feel better about money. Start to adopt a better relationship with money by gently finding thoughts that feel just a little better.

In all honesty, the best prescription that I have found to take your mind off of money troubles is to start feeling good. Make it your intention that you are going to feel good no matter what anyone says to you, no matter what anyone else does, no matter what happens in the world. You’re going to feel good, you’re going to feel good, and you’re going to feel good!

Grab a notebook and start to write down all of the positive aspects about someone who you love, or some place that you really like to visit. Sit in your favourite chair for 30 minutes and just dream about how you want your life to be. Go for a walk and appreciate nature. Curl up next to a soft fire with a really good book and enjoy a little ‘me’ time. Do anything that you possibly can to feel good. This IS your work!

Your work ISN’T to find another source of income
Your work ISN’T to take on double shifts at work
Your work ISN’T to make something happen

But your work IS to feel good.

If you start to visualize about your money situation and how you would like it to be, you’ll find that your deeply rooted beliefs about money quickly come to surface and start telling you things like…

  • Yeah! You WISH you had that much money
  • You’re not one of the lucky ones
  • What makes you so special all of a sudden?

So your visualization is canceled out because of the negative self-talk. Not something you want to spend time doing!

Instead, take your mind off of the subject all together and spend every waking moment experiencing joy. Remember, you do get to pick the thoughts you choose. No matter how random they may appear to you, you have put them there and you can change them.

I invite you to practice feeling good every day for 30 days consecutively and then re-asses your money situation. If you’ve been taking your attention well away from money and feeling good then I guarantee you prosperity in abundance will be all around you.

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The Law of Attraction And My Experience

1st April 2008

This is a guest article by blogger, Meredith Pollock from:
Life’s Journeys - http://mrp721.blogspot.com

I have only recently discovered the Law of Attraction (LOA) and had to learn from scratch on how to reprogram my thoughts, I was probably one of the most negative people you could come across and so as you can imagine one of the biggest skeptics of this whole LOA idea.

I purchased Gary Evans’ e-book “How to Manifest a Miracle” because in all truth I just wanted a miracle – I didn’t realize that I would have to put some “work” into it, that was until I read Gary’s book, and that was the changing point for me, it was a case of one Aha moment after another.

I realized sitting on my butt wasn’t going to get me anywhere, nothing was just going to fall into my lap, I had to make changes. I thought if I just thought positive thoughts then my whole life would change – boy was I wrong, just thinking positive thoughts will get you absolutely nowhere if you don’t experience the emotions that go with it. That was a difficult concept for me to grasp because initially I felt nothing due to life long depression I had suffered, I was totally numb and had no passion or desire for anything in life. But I took what I had learned in Gary’s book and applied it.

I did not want to start attracting wealth or a new car immediately but chose to focus on myself first, changing myself, learning to love myself, changing what I could change and accepting what I couldn’t change. Within the first week I felt a significant lift in my mood, I began to feel alive again, I started becoming interested in life again. Within a month my depression was gone, yes you read correctly, the depression is gone, there are still the odd days where I don’t feel the best but that is normal as it is not everyday, as I said it’s once in a while. It has only been about 3 months that I have been practicing this LOA and the changes are amazing.

But I have learned that you attract what you think about, so if you keep thinking you want something but in the back of your mind you are doubting it (that little voice that keeps saying “Yeah right like that’s gonna happen”) and you start to believe that little voice, well then you aren’t going to attract what you want but instead what you don’t want.

If you want to do something but tell yourself “I can’t do it” well then you have just defeated yourself, when that little voice comes into your thoughts saying you can’t do it, tell yourself “Yes I can and will” and you’re on your way. I believe that the Higher Power wants us to have money and to be happy, we just have to be open and follow what is put in front of us. So just put your order out to the Universe and watch and be patient as it unfolds.

One of the most important concepts for you to know and believe to create the life that you want is that there is absolutely no lack of abundance of the things that you desire, so many people think that they there is only X amount for every person and this is usually the case with money. There is so much negativity attached to the desire for more money that it is ridiculous. There is no more reason to be sorry for wanting money than to be sorry for wanting oxygen. You wouldn’t stop breathing for a while because you felt guilty for taking in more air than you should.

The truth is, that the only reason you don’t have more money, better health, or a loving relationship is because you either don’t really want them, you don’t believe you deserve them, or you aren’t allowing them in because you don’t believe they’re on their way to you. Tune your frequency to the abundance channel and your desires will come to you.

Remember we don’t need to know “how” things happen that’s not part of our job to manifest, we just need to focus on our desires and believe.

“If you’re looking for the key to the universe, I’ve got some good news and bad news. The bad news: there’s no key to the Universe. The good news: it was never locked.”
- Swami Beyondananda

I would like to take this time to thank Gary for giving me this opportunity to write this article for the Good To Feel Good blog space, it was an absolute honour and to thank each and everyone who has taken the time to read my two cents worth.

If you enjoyed this be sure to check out my blog at http://mrp721.blogspot.com it is a site that I try to update on a regular basis. I sincerely hope that this has inspired you in some way to go out and grab each opportunity presented to you with both hands. May you all be blessed in abundance.

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